My husband is a very faithful and hardworking man. We have been married for almost 10 years and I have not seen anything bad from him. He works for a government agency and we go on vacation together every week.

But a lot has changed lately. We have two boys.

When my mother-in-law was alive, she helped me take care of the kids, and she enjoyed her retirement. Now my mother-in-law is dead and we don’t even have that help, the care of the whole house is on me alone. But after mom died, my husband said that we had to have a baby girl and name her after his mother.

I loved and respected my mother-in-law very much, we never had conflicts and we were very peaceful, and if we had a girl, I wouldn’t mind naming a baby after her, but now I am mentally and physically not ready for a third child.

I know this pregnancy is going to be very hard on me, but I can’t convince my husband. What should I do, please give me some advice.