I am close with my neighbor, I love them, especially the men who come to my rescue at any time. I live alone. Yesterday the key didn’t open the door and I was left outside in the middle of the night.

I called my neighbor and he immediately came to help. We opened the door, then went inside together, he said let’s have a cup of coffee and I’ll leave. I agreed, I’d known him for a long time. I put the coffee on, sat down, we got to talking, and then he said, close your eyes, I have a surprise for you.

I thought he was joking, but I closed my eyes and he came over and stood in front of me and took my hand and put a ring on my finger and said, I love you. I couldn’t believe he could afford to do that. I asked him to take the ring and leave my house. Please tell me, is this kind of behavior normal for a married man?